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Starter pack

This sex toy starter pack is for your first toy, or your first in a long time: small, simple, body-safe and not intimidating. Shop mini bullets and finger vibes, cute clitoral toys, first cock rings and strokers, small butt plugs, slim dildos, lube and beginner kits.

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What is a starter sex toy?

A starter sex toy is small, simple, body-safe and easy to figure out the first time you pick it up, whatever body you have. Starter Pack is for anyone at that point: newly single after a long relationship, finally shopping for yourself, or buying a first for someone you love. It exists so you never have to scroll through hundreds of options whispering “what am I doing.”

Everything here follows the same rules: not too big, not too loud, not too expensive, not complicated. The designs are cute on purpose, because nobody wants something clinical sitting on the nightstand, and a toy you like looking at is a toy you actually reach for.

The thing most first-timers miss: a new rechargeable toy often arrives with little or no charge, and some have a travel lock that makes them seem dead. Charge it fully and check the instructions for how to unlock it before you decide it does not work.

Types of starter pack

Every kind of first toy, sorted from simplest to more adventurous.

  • Bullet vibrators: mini bullets in candy colors and gem finishes. The simplest way to find out what you like.
  • Clitoral vibrators: animal and cloud shaped external toys that sit in your palm, plus finger vibes that slip over a fingertip.
  • Wand vibrators: mini wands with the broad rumble of a full size wand in a smaller, easier package.
  • Discreet vibrators: lipstick style and bag friendly vibes that do not look like toys at a glance.
  • Pressure wave vibrators: air pulse toys for anyone who finds direct vibration too much.
  • Cock rings: stretchy vibrating rings that add a buzz for both partners during sex.
  • Strokers: disposable sleeves and eggs for a low cost first try, plus vibrating strokers once you know you like it.
  • Butt plugs: small glass and jeweled plugs and graduated training kits for a slow, comfortable start.
  • Dildos: slim and short silicone dildos, including gently curved G-spot shapes.
  • Rabbit vibrators: small rabbits with ears for outside and a shaft for inside, for when you want both at once.
  • G-spot vibrators: gently curved vibes for when you are ready to explore inside.
  • Sexual health and wellness: kegel kits and pelvic floor tools that build strength at your own pace.
  • Stoner sex toys: cannabis themed vibes and bullets for a first toy with a sense of humor.
  • Games: dice and foreplay games that make trying something new feel like play.
  • Gift sets: boxed kits that bundle a first toy with extras, easy to give and easy to open.
  • Beginner vibrators: every small first vibrator in the store, with a deeper guide to choosing between them.
  • Water based lubricants: a first toy feels better with lube, and water based is safe with every material.
  • Toy cleaners: a quick clean after each use keeps a first toy in good shape.
  • Toy storage: pouches and bags that keep it clean and out of sight.
  • Beginner bondage kits: if your first curiosity is kink rather than vibration, start here.

How to choose the right one

If you have no idea what you like: start with a bullet or a small clitoral toy. Both are external, easy to hold and inexpensive, and you will keep using them even after you own bigger things.

If you have a penis: start with a cock ring or a disposable stroker. A vibrating ring works solo or with a partner, and a disposable sleeve lets you find out what you like without spending much.

If you are curious about anal: go small, slow and flared. Start with the smallest plug, use plenty of water based lube, and only use toys with a flared base. A training kit lets you size up when you are ready.

If you want to try penetration: choose a slim silicone dildo. Slim and short is the easy way in, and a gentle curve helps you find the G-spot without guessing.

If you want more power: try a mini wand. It gives the deep rumble people love about wands in a size that is easier to handle. Our wand vibrator guide walks through how to use one.

If you are shopping for someone else: go cute and simple over powerful. A boxed gift set or a couples game arrives ready to enjoy, and a first toy that feels friendly gets used more than one that feels like a lot.

If you are starting over after a long relationship: pick something that feels like yours. A color and shape you like looking at matters more than specs right now.

If you share walls or a nightstand: choose a discreet style. Lipstick style and bag friendly toys do not announce themselves, and a soft pouch keeps them quiet in a drawer.

If kink is the curiosity: start with a beginner bondage kit. Our BDSM starter kit guide walks through what is in one and how to use it.

On power and material: rechargeable and body-safe silicone or glass. Rechargeable toys are stronger and more consistent than battery ones, and silicone and glass are nonporous, so they clean up completely.

Still deciding: read up or ask us. The best beginner vibrators walks through specific picks. And if you are still not sure, ask us. We do this every day and we do not get weird about it.