Collars & Leashes

A BDSM collar is a collar worn to mark a dynamic between two people. The hardware is simple. The meaning is not, which is why people are so particular about picking the right one.

The practical split is day collar versus scene collar. A day collar is thinner, softer, and reads as jewelry to anyone who does not know what they are looking at. A scene collar is usually leather, wider, and built around a ring you can clip a leash to or run a lock through. Plenty of people own both and wear them for completely different reasons.

A collar is not quite a choker, though the line is blurry. The difference that matters is the ring. If there is a D-ring or O-ring to clip to, it is doing collar work.

These are the styles we actually stock, roughly in order of what people ask for:

• Heart lock collars: a padlock-style heart at the throat, usually with a word on it. Princess, Baby Girl, Daddy's Girl and similar. The single most-requested style here and the reason most people land on this page.
• Slogan collars: the blunter end of the same idea. Fuck Doll, Cum Slut, Fuck Toy. Not subtle, and not meant to be.
• O-ring collars: a single large ring at the front. The classic kink silhouette, and the easiest to clip a leash to.
• Studded and rhinestone: leather with hardware, from a few studs to full rhinestone. These read as kink across a room.
• Day collars and chokers: satin, faux suede, thin leather. Meant to be worn under a shirt without anyone clocking it.
• Collar and leash sets: matched pairs. Easier than pairing a collar and lead yourself, and the leash clip is guaranteed to fit the ring.

If you are building out a scene rather than buying one piece, the pieces that pair most often with a collar are cuffs, gags, tails for kitten and pet play, and a harness if you want the collar to be part of a bigger look. Brand new to this? Start with a beginner set instead of assembling it piece by piece.