Womanizer Blend vs Maya vs Wonderlover: Which Dual-Action Vibrator Should You Buy?

By Zoey Unicorn · 8 min read

If you are choosing between the Womanizer Blend, the Maya and the Wonderlover, here is the short answer. Buy the Maya if you want the best value and a quiet, gentler introduction to suction. Buy the Wonderlover if you want a remote so a partner can drive. Buy the Womanizer Blend if you already know you love air pulse and want the strongest of the three. I have tested all of them, and they each win for a different person.

All three are dual-action toys. That means one part sits on the clitoris and another part goes inside to reach the G-spot, so you get both kinds of stimulation at once and your hands stay free. If that style is new to you, my guide to types of G-spot vibrators explains what each design feels like.

When you compare dual-action toys, a handful of things decide whether you will love one: how strong it is, how loud it gets, how easy the controls are, and how full the inner part feels. Those are the sections below, along with price and how each one works with a partner, so you can jump to whatever matters most to you.

Which One Should You Buy? The Quick Version

For solo play on a budget, go with the Maya at $65. For couples, go with the Love to Love Wonderlover at $173, because the remote changes how you can use it. For pure power with that famous air pulse feeling, the Womanizer Blend at $129 is the one. If you are like me and want a fuller feeling inside, I reach for the Maya or the Wonderlover over the Blend.

The three dual-action vibrators

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Womanizer Blend vs Maya vs Wonderlover at a Glance

Here is the side-by-side. Check marks are yes, an X is no, and a squiggle means partly. The rows below it explain the ones that matter most.

Key: ✓ yes, ✗ no, ~ partly. Based on my own testing of all three, plus the product specs.

The Clitoral Part: Air Pulse vs a Flapping Tongue

This is the biggest difference between the three, and it is worth understanding before you buy. The Womanizer Blend and the Maya both have a small mouth that sits over the clitoris and uses air pulse. That feels like a pulsation rather than a vibration, and the mouth does not actually touch the clitoris. The Wonderlover works differently. Instead of a suction mouth, it has a small tongue that flaps up and down against the clitoris, so it is a contact sensation, closer to a lick than a pulse.

Neither style is better. If you already know you love suction toys, the Blend or the Maya will feel familiar. If air pulse has always felt like too much, or you prefer direct contact, the Wonderlover's tongue is a nice alternative.

Strength: Blend Wins, Maya Is Plenty

The Womanizer Blend is the strongest of the three. Its air pulse is comparable to the current Womanizer models, which are quite strong, and I only went up to the third level. The Wonderlover sits in the middle. The Maya is probably the weakest of the three, but it still has plenty of strength on a full charge, so do not read weakest as weak. If you are newer to suction-style toys, that gentler start is a feature. Not sure whether you want vibration or air? Read my breakdown of air pulse vs vibration.

Noise: Two Very Quiet, One That Depends on Fit

The Maya is very quiet. The Wonderlover is also very quiet. The Blend is quiet when it is inserted in the proper position, but if the fit is not snug it gets quite loud, especially on the higher modes. If you share walls with anyone, that matters. For more options in that department, see the best discreet vibrators.

Controls and Charging: Buttons vs Remote

The Maya is the easiest to use. It has a separate button on the toy for each of its two motors, so you change the strength of each one directly. The Wonderlover turns on at the toy, and everything else runs from the remote. The Blend has a plus and a minus, and I fumbled a bit finding how to turn it off. The part that goes inside runs on a different button, and I had to check the instructions for that too.

All three are USB rechargeable. The difference is the end that attaches to the toy. The Wonderlover uses a magnetic connector, and its cord has two ends, so the toy and the remote can charge at the same time even though each one needs its own charge. The Maya uses a pin-style charger, a small round plug that slides into the top of the toy, much like a headphone jack. Keep that cord somewhere safe, because it is not the kind you can borrow from your phone.

How They Feel Inside

Both the Maya and the Wonderlover give a fuller feeling inserted than the Blend. The Wonderlover is more ball-shaped, with a rumbly vibration. The Maya is longer and fuller, with some ridges. The Blend is the slimmest of the three inside, and I would have liked it to be a little thicker and longer.

Solo vs Couples Play

For solo play, all three are good, and all three are hands-free. For couples, you can keep any of them in during penetration for an extra full feeling. That can be intense depending on your partner's size, and the top portion might get in the way depending on the position, so go slowly and adjust. The Wonderlover has the edge for couples because the remote lets a partner control the toy. If you are new to sharing toys, First Time Using a Toy Together walks through how to bring one into partner sex.

Durability, Price and Value

The Maya is the best value, and with routine use I would expect it might wear out after a year or two. It is inexpensive enough that replacing it is no big deal. The Wonderlover costs the most, but you are paying for the remote and the two-part design. The Blend is the middle price, with a premium-brand feel. If you are weighing a pricey brand against a cheaper option, my Rose Toy vs Womanizer post covers that question too.

Who Each One Is Best For

The Maya is best for the solo player on a budget, someone who wants a quiet toy with easy controls and a fuller, ridged feeling inside. It is also the gentlest of the three on strength, which helps if you are still learning how much suction you like.

The Wonderlover is best for couples, or for anyone who likes the idea of handing over control. The ball-shaped, rumbly vibration is a different feel from the other two, and it stays very quiet. It is the pricey one, but it is also the only one with a remote.

The Womanizer Blend is best for someone who already loves air pulse and wants it paired with G-spot vibration. It is the strongest, and the handle-like top makes solo adjustment easy. It is not what I would start with, and it is the one to watch for noise if the fit is not snug.

Lube, Cleaning and Care

All three are silicone toys, so stick with water-based or hybrid lube, since silicone lube can break down the surface over time. Wash each one with warm water and mild unscented soap or a toy cleaner after every session, and let it air dry. Keep the Maya's charging port out of the water when you clean it, and store all three apart from other silicone toys.

The Verdict

Choose the Maya for value, quiet and a gentler start. Choose the Wonderlover for couples and remote control. Choose the Womanizer Blend if you want maximum power and love air pulse. If I had to pick one for myself, I would choose the Maya or the Wonderlover over the Blend.

You can browse more couples vibrators or G-spot vibrators, and if you are building a routine for two, my Keep the Spark page has more ideas. For solo play, head to the Solo Era page.