How To Make Yourself Squirt While Masturbating
"So, you want to add extra juice to your self-pleasure menu? Well then, buckle up! in this quick guide, you will learn how to make yourself squirt while masturbating"
Are you struggling with making yourself squirt during sex? Practicing how to ejaculate with someone you love can be incredibly pleasurable if they are patient enough to make it happen.
But, teaching yourself how to squirt while masturbating is like killing two birds with one stone.
You're enjoying the act as well as knowing how your body works. This knowledge will be your blueprint while having sex with your partner.
What Is Squirting, And How Does It Work?
Before you dive into learning how to make yourself squirt, it's essential you familiarize yourself with "everything down there" to enhance your squirting abilities. Don't worry, I'm not going to bore you with some medical terms.
A quick refresher: squirting or female ejaculation is the release of fluid through the urethra during sex or masturbation. The following are involved in squirting; G-spot, Skene's gland, and urethra.
Your G-spot is located 2-3 inches from your vagina, and above it is your Skene's gland.
Skene's gland is the central point of female ejaculation. It is located at the lower end of your urethra; you can't directly stimulate your Skene's gland because it's hidden by surrounding tissues.
Here's how squirting happens
When you are horny, your G-spot will engorge. It feels thicker and slightly rough at the touch.
Stimulating your G-spot during sex or masturbation will indirectly stimulate your Skene's gland because it is located above it.
As a result, your Skene's gland fills with fluid and then expels it through your urethra. Pee also passes through your urethra.
There has been a lot of conflicting information about squirting. Some studies claimed squirt contains uric acid while some women took to Twitter to say it's #NotPee. Whether it's pee or not, the feeling you get when you squirt is super pleasurable.
So, if you have the "I need to pee" feeling while masturbating, you are close to squirting! Most women struggling with squirting actually hold themselves back when they feel the urge to pee. So, relax and let it out.
Having said that, we will focus on stimulating your G-spot because it's the crucial part of achieving a squirting orgasm. It's high time you learned how to make yourself squirt, get your G ready!
Best tips on how to make yourself squirt while masturbating
Pee Before Gettin' in dah' Mood
Before practicing how to make yourself squirt, it's crucial you empty your bladder to prevent mixing the squirt juice with urine. So, when you feel the urge to pee during intense masturbation, you will know it's squirt and not urine. Doing this will make you feel comfortable while squirting because you emptied your bladder earlier.
Things might get a little bit messy while squirting. The squirt amount varies in different women; it can be a gushing fountain to some women, while in others - little to none.
Get Comfortable and Horny!
One of the best tips on learning how to make yourself squirt is to get relaxed, comfortable, and aroused. Because this is literally the stepping stone in getting you there. You cannot squirt if you are dry. In other words, your G-spot won't get engorged if you are not aroused.
You need to prepare yourself for this squirting adventure. Here are a few tips: watch porn, read erotica, fantasize about someone, caress yourself, or use a vibrator with G-spot stimulation. It may take up to 20 mins to get you there, don't be in a hurry, and don't focus on your G-spot yet. Make sure you are craving sex before proceeding to the last part.
Stimulate Your G-spot
Now, this is the critical part of making yourself squirt. As you get aroused, your G-spot will swell.
You have to find and stimulate your g-spot, which in turn boosts your Skene's gland, and boom you squirt! Well, not so fast though.
To find your G-spot, insert your fingers or sex toys 2-3 inches from your vagina, you will feel a soft, thick, and slightly rough flesh like the upper wall of your mouth, and apply pressure to it. Okay, it's time to choose the right weapon to enhance your squirting experience and make it super-pleasurable for you.
Gentle G-spot starters
Squirting techniques: how to make yourself squirt using your fingers
The Hook Technique
Lie down flat on your bed, make sure you are supercharged and hungry. Insert your middle and ring fingers right into your vagina; your index and pinky finger should be outside and pointing towards your ass. Now, find your G-spot and gently massage it with your inserted fingers. You can move your fingers up-down or back-forth.
Push The Button
Press your G-spot like you would press a button; this will stimulate your G! Insert your middle finger or use both fingers (hook). The point is to apply pressure on your G-spot. Some women require much pressure on the G-spot to build up fluid in their skene gland while others require less. The point of doing this is to find out what best works for you.
Come Hither
This technique is much more likely to make you squirt and can be pleasurable. All you need to do is, run a back and forth movement using your ring or middle fingers (or both) across your G-spot. Applying this squirting technique on your G-spot will provide you with much more stimulation. Again, pressure differs. Experiment and get the right amount of pressure you need to make yourself squirt.
Arm Shaker
This squirting technique is a bit complex, but it sure as hell works! It's like a combo of come hither and push the button. Here, you will use your arm to provide stimulation. Follow my lead; insert your finger or toy, keep it firmly, and press your G-spot. Make sure your arm is stiff while raising and lowering it. As your fingers are pressed against your G-spot, your arm will help provide massive pressure using this squirting technique. This is guaranteed to make you squirt.
Squirting, demystified: the questions everyone actually has
Once you know how to make it happen, the fun questions start rolling in. Is it pee? Can everyone do it? To answer those properly, I am handing the mic to sexuality educator Niki Davis, quoted here word for word.
So… is it pee?
Short answer: not really. In one study, women emptied their bladders, then their bladders refilled once they were aroused, and emptied again when they ejaculated, so most of the fluid does come from the bladder. But when researchers compared it to urine, the squirt fluid was often so diluted that it was odorless and clear, and in five of the seven women a prostate-specific antigen (the same marker found in male ejaculate) turned up in it. So it shares some plumbing with pee, but chemically it is not the same thing.
Is squirting the same as an orgasm?
Not necessarily. Squirting can happen before an orgasm, after one, or completely on its own. Chasing the gush and chasing the climax are two different missions, and you do not need one to have the other.
Can everyone do it?
Maybe not, and that is completely okay. In one lab study, researchers managed to get about 37% of participants to squirt and could not with the other 63%, even across multiple sessions and techniques. As Niki says of her own first time, “I squirted and orgasmed at the same time and I may have seen a glimpse of the lord.” If it happens for you, epic. If it does not, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
It's okay if you can't squirt.
If you don't squirt after the act, at least you enjoyed self-pleasure, which has a lot of health benefits.
We hate to break it to you, learning how to make yourself squirt for the first time and actually perfecting it is not as easy as you thought it would.
Well, for some women, it's relatively easy, while others require some time to reach there. Every woman's body differs, and nothing is wrong with you if you don't squirt right away.
First, enjoy the act and focus on satisfying yourself adequately. We hope you've learned how to make yourself squirt!
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About the expert
The squirting facts and quotes in the FAQ above come directly from Niki Davis. In her words: “Niki is a full time sexuality educator, writer and private sex coach. The focus of her Masters in psychology was sexuality and she has lectured at NYU, The United Nations and many other venues on the subjects of sexual communication, sexual assault intervention and support, and human sexuality.”
Find her at nikidavisf.com and on Instagram @missbloomsexeducator.
